Friday, December 19

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP


I just passed my 5th Months Anniversary with my Boyfriend. We are doing our Long Distance Relationship now. I know that people always think that this relation will not be everlasting. But who knows..? I have many ideas to be sure that he or she 's the one for u during your long distance relationship wheter non-long distance relationship. Here what you guys gotta check :



1. That he/she has the same purpose with you, the same principal and belief, the same ideals on anything, the same perspective to avoid break-up(these stuff are main reasons for people to get break-up or divorce.)


2. That he/she loves you. Unconditionally. From the heart. Just the way you are and for who you are. If they say "you can see through my eyes", then just see it and you'll feel it when you meet the perfect "one"

3. That he/she listens to your heart, whether you're worried, happy, scared, excited, disappointed or sad and anything. They gotta hear you even when you don't say it with words. They'll know it through your eyes. They'll feel it too.

4. . That he/she is a good companion, great discussion mate, that you both have an advanced communication skill, coz in a long distance relationship, communication (and understanding) is "everything"

5. That he/she knows well how to make you laugh or stop your tears. This is important, cuz like it or not, there are shitty things happen in life and you gotta need him or her to solve those shitty problem.

6. That he/she respects you, your decision, and always supports you. And tells you when they think you're taking the wrong way. And still supports you, no matter what.

7. That he/she considers you're perfect, even when you have so many flaws, imperfection and weaknesses.

8. That he/she can make you COMFORT and complete your life with love.

Well, maybe this list is still gonna be added if I find something new about this topic. Or maybe you guys can help me adding up the list, especially for those who doing the long-dis relationship ;P
with love

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