Sharing : My Self in Psychology Point of View

Dear Bloggie ..

• I am an extroversion kind of person. I like to talk even to people I just known. I like to share many things with people. Because I’m such a social support person, I tend to be happy, optimistic, and healthy. I am also a conscientiousness kind of person. I like to work-hard and I organized things well. In other side, I also tend to be neuroticism kind of person. I become temperamental and I can’t control my emotion and worried about things.

• I am a hard-driving, ambitious, highly competitive, and achievement oriented. I believe that I can over come obstacles, and push my self accordingly with enough effort. Even sometime I become so aggressive and egoist with my own needs. But after all, I can be a severe impairment borderline kind of person. I’m extremely sensitive to any hint of criticism, rejection, or abandonment by other. I am a zoophobia kind of person. I even can not shake it off; even it is no real danger.

• I am a linguistic kind of person. I’m trilingual. I can speak Indonesian, English and Arabic. I am also having a sense of art. I love to sing and dance. My thinking style is divergent thinking. I like to have many reasons while I’m discussing about something. From general principles to the specific situation which also had known as deductive thought.

• I’m having a Short Term Memory. Sometime happen a displacement in my brain that the new information will push out part of the old information. I really need help from someone who can remembered me while I'm almost instantly forget of those part of old information

• I am a self confidence kind of person. I believe that I can be success when carry out an activity or when reaching my goal. Because self confidence effect motivation by influencing the challenges I undertake.

• As a human being, I believe that everyone has their own negative side. And my own negative side is I can’t control my ego and anger. I often use my projection defense when losing an argument. I’m placing unacceptable impulses in my self onto someone else.

• We haven’t realized that, we all use the principles of psychology everyday. When we get nervous right before we have to give that big speech, we are activating our autonomic nervous system. When we talk to our selves to “calm down”, “work hard”, or “give up”, we are utilizing cognitive approaches to change our behaviors and emotion. By learning psychology we will know ourselves and how to improve our life. By study psychology we will know how to describe and observe behaviors. And also psychology wants to improve a person’s life, not make it worst.

• As I told before that I’m suffering a short term memory, by learning psychology now I can solve my problem. I’m trying to transferring information from the short term memory to long term memory by repeating the information silently to prolong its presence. So, by learning psychology, now I know how to improve memory.

• I learnt about behavioral psychology that basically centralized in how our behavior results from the stimuli both in the environment and within ourselves. It’s helped me learn a great deal about our behaviors, the effect of our environment has on me, how I learn new behaviors, and what motivates me to change or remain the same.

Love.